Demystifying My Intense Travel
- pilarbeckham
- Jan 14
- 4 min read
There was a time, I was traveling as a sport - craving more flight deals, more countries accumulated, seeing where else I could go.
Then I started a new job. During orientation, we had to share a “fun fact.” One person said they’d been to 20 countries. The next said 22. Then 31, then 33, 37, 38, then 40, etc. Eventually, someone dropped 54 like it was a personality trait. The whole thing felt like a weird competition. Ever since that day, I stopped saying or posting about how many countries I’ve been to. Now I associate that kind of boasting with that day and it's weird.
Dating apps love that line too "I've travelled to #X countries"...it's everywhere?
My girlfriend Amelia once wrote, “I’ve been to 293 countries,” in her bio just to mock it. Which I found hilarious.
Visiting many countries doesn't make you intelligent, it doesn't make you kind, generous or even cool. It means you've been on a lot of planes or buses, and received a lot of passport stamps. So why wear this badge...for what?
I get it for travel influencers...because it brings quantitative legitimacy to your expertise in travel...
I guess...IDK but.....anyways...
Here's how I've travelled to 80 countries, and I just want to demystify how.

By the time I graduated university, I’d already been to 20.
One year studying in London. One year in Beijing. International internships. Summer programs. I took my first solo trip to Korea to celebrate my 20th birthday. :)
I wasn’t counting at the time, I just wanted to learn languages and study abroad as much as possible.
How did you afford that?
Because I didn’t spend much.
People used to say, “Oooh, you got money.” No? Well maybe, I just didn’t spend it.
For years, I lived on canned green beans, black beans, corn, rice, and eggs. Four cans and a dozen eggs for under $4 with coupons. No nails, no brows, no hair. My money was for flights.
My first year after graduating, I made $12,000. That same year, I visited 8 countries on 3 trips.
Hostels. Backpack. Cheap food. You can make a lot happen.
Layover Visits
I’ve visited a lot of places on long layovers — 12 to 28 hours that came with my ticket. I used to hunt for them on purpose.
Now I’m mostly over it… except for Doha. I still haven't been to Qatar and I want a long layover there.
And Istanbul is always worth it for shopping.
Some of my layover stops:
Frankfurt, Germany to Lagos Nairobi
Dubai to Zanzibar, Tanzania
Buenos Aires Argentina to Santiago Chile
Addis Ababa Ethiopia to Nairobi Kenya
Tokyo, Japan to Seoul Korea
Panama City, Panama to El Salvador
Stockholm, Sweden to Riga Latvia
Oslo Norway to Ibiza Spain
Belgrade, Serbia to Bucharest Romania
Macau to Taiwan
Reykavik, Iceland to Berlin Germany
Austria, Vienna to Cairo Egypt
Istanbul Turkey to Los Angeles, CA (from Malta)
London to Dakar Senegal.
*Yes, I still have not been to Japan except for an overnight layover 11 years ago. Insane. I'll be traveling through Asia soon enough but I'm loving my time in Africa right now.
Day trip and I didn't spend the night
I have visited so many places for just the day, didn't even spend the night.
Belgium, Brussels - day trip from London
The Vatican - day trip while in Italy
Gibraltar - day trip from Tarifa Spain
Bratislava, Slovakia - day trip from Budapest Hungary
Llubjana, Slovenia - day trip from Zagreb Croatia
Malmo, Sweden - day trip from Copenhagen Denmark
Corfu Greece - day trip from Sarande, Albania
Chobe, Botswana - day trip from Livingstone Zambia
Impalila, Namibia - day trip from Livingstone Zambia
Europe is cheap
I've been to 32 countries in Europe, and that's because flights are incredibly cheap over there.
I've flown from Portugal to Spain for $9 USD.
You can see 5 countries in 14 days easily. This way of travel is notoriously an American practice - but when it costs thousands just to get there, you try to see as much as you can. Every travel style is valid.
Cheap Flights are Everything
I crave, I long for a good flight deal.
Yes, I ride Spirit Airlines, and Fronteir, and Ryan Air, and whatever else, and I historically have rarely checked bags to keep my costs down.
Sometimes I didn’t even care about the destination — if the flight was cheap, I was going. That’s how I ended up in El Salvador in 2015.
Some flight deals I'm especially proud of:
San Francisco to Beijing - $183
Washington DC to Reykavik Iceland - $99
Washington DC to Dublin Ireland - $118
Washington DC to Copenhagen Denmark - $129
Washington DC to Stockholm, Sweden -$371
New York to Liberia, Costa Rica - $173
Washington DC to San Salvador - $215
One Way Washington DC to Medellin, Colombia- $98
Counting Territories
Some people do or do not count territories, or non-UN recognized nations. I do. Here's some examples.
Puerto Rico (United States) - a territory of the USA
Azores, (Portugal) - they're self governing and also hella far from mainland Portugal
The Vatican (Italy) - Physically in Italy, but is a UN recognized nation state specifically for the Catholic Church
Gibraltar (United Kingdom) - a part of the United Kingdom, but physically within Spain and across from Morocco
Taiwan (China) - not recognized by the United Nations, but...
Macau (China) - A Chinese territory famous for their casinos and business.
Zanzibar (Tanzania) - An island off of Tanzania that is also self governing. I think most tourists that visit Tanzania always go to Zanzibar .
An example of a territory I want to visit, but isn't a country - is Kurdistan :)
Thank you for your time.


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